Anonymous: I think you should always offer as the female. If the guy doesn't allow you to pitch in then I don't think you should push it because some guys might get offended.
Exactly, always offer. If we say no to you pitching in, leave it at that.
Anonymous: I just started dating someone a few months ago, and so far he has paid for all of our dinner dates. However- his car isn't working so I am the one driving and I have paid for expensive things like big concerts and a hotel once. Do you think that is fair? I have of course offered to pay for dinner. But he never wants me to.
That’s perfect. As long as you offer, it’s all good.
Anonymous: I always ask to help pay, even if it's the first date. I feel as if it's rude to not ask at all.
Anonymous: I know a guy who fills his girlfriends gas tank constantly.
Damn, her pussy game strong.
Anonymous: The beginning of my relationship we split everything. We still do. If one person decided to treat the other person it's because we can't to not because it's expected. Sometimes I'll call my guy and ask him if he wants to go to dinner or a movie my treat. Sometimes he doesn't the same thing for me.
That’s a good relationship.
Anonymous: I think if a girl asks the guy out, she should pay! And if the guy asks the girl he should pay. Although I have never been on a first date where the guy didn't insist he pays.
I mean first date, the guy should definitely pay and the few after that. If a girl offers to help pay, you have a keeper but when you go into a relationship I don’t think the guy should always be paying unless he’s asked her out to a special date or something of that sort.
Anonymous: I don't get guys exclusively paying for dates. Opening doors, that bullshit, that's nice. That's just polite and either gender can do that. But the guy having to pay? Like, what the hell? I'm a chick and I've paid/split pay for dates. But then again I'm not a priss who wants prince charming to ride in on a white horse, but come on.
I mean I don’t mind paying to an extent and also even if they don’t split, at least offer.
Anonymous: At the start of the relationship-- I think the guy should pay for dates and ect. But after it gets more serious i think they should take turns or split bills sometimes. It's always nice when the other person pays, whether you're make or female, the gesture is nice. Thats my opinion!
See I don’t get why guys should pay for everything at the start of a relationship.
To all the girls out there; when you have a boyfriend do you expect him to pay for everything or do you pitch in or at least offer?